My Feminity

I still find my self reaching out for you at night, all I find is your pillow. I can still smell you . I close my eyes and there you are my rock, my friend, my lover, my partner. I crave for your touch, your soft lips , your skin next to mine. How I felt safe in your arms. To look up in to your eyes and see the love. To be in your arms is like being at peace. I close my eyes and smile knowing you are not far.

There is a secret place,

where no one ever goes.

It is hidden and protected,

kept safe and quite secure.

Because vibrators are often penis-shaped many girls think they have to insert the vibrator in their vagina. But this is disappointing for most of them since the vagina itself is not very sensitive.

 Most girls press the vibrator against their clitoris. Other areas you can stimulate with the vibrator are the clitoral hood, the skin at the sides of the clitoris, the labia and the vaginal opening. With vibrators made of plastic you can assert pressure on your clitoris, which can be nice. But vibrators made of softer material feel more like human skin, which can also be a turn on.

 Vary the amount of pressure, pressing against your clitoris or stroking it, direct stimulation of your clitoris or indirect by pressing it against the surrounding area. By trying different things you?ll find out what works best for you.

 If the vibrator has the shape of a dildo, you can also thrust it in and out of your vagina. But for most girls this is not their favourite.

Girls who have a hard time climaxing can benefit from using a vibrator. Because the clitoral stimulation is quite intense, it?s easier to orgasm with a vibrator than using fingers.

Oh, Good it is stil there!

It?s not just for horny teenagers in a rusty old car at a drive-in. With the right touch it could land up being very sensual and intimate. By using your one hand, gently clasp his penis and slide your hand from the base towards the tip. When at the top, grasp the entire length and slowly bring your hand down its length. Add some slippery lubricant and be prepared to have a man on his knees begging for more. To really get him going make sure that you get the joint of your thumb right on the ?neck? of the head of his penis and apply gentle pressure there whilst moving up and down.

Erotic Diary

To give the best fellatio he's ever had, do as follows...

Right, first things first: begin with lots of foreplay. Try something like a massage, if you have long hair use it to tease him. When you're ready to move south, remember to kiss, lick and caress him all the way down to his toes. Take your time; tease him as you pass his penis and genitals on the way down and on the way back up. Make sure he is fully erect before your mouth goes anywhere near his penis.

Next, try masturbating him ? keep one hand at the bottom of his shaft (the base of the penis) and use your other hand to arouse other parts of his body such as his anus and perineum, his testicles and his nipples.

When you're ready to move on to oral sex, the basic technique you should adopt is to masturbate the penis by sliding your hand up and down the penis, closing it slightly when you reach the top and opening it slightly as you move back down. All the while keep his penis moving in and out of your mouth (lips covering teeth) which should be applying a firm but comfortable pressure. If he's uncircumcised, do not tug or yank his foreskin; just make sure it slides up and over the penile head.

When you've got the hang of the basic technique, take a good firm grip and accentuate your tongue movements. Lick his penis as if it were a lollypop, using long slow movements over the head and up the sides. Cover your teeth with your lips and give him a couple of 'lip pinches' (biting without using your teeth). Use lots of saliva, the more lubricated the penis, the better it feels. Finally, take his penis into your mouth and swirl your tongue around the head.

By keeping one hand on the shaft of his penis, you prevent him from gagging you and you control how deeply you take it into you mouth. Deep throating is where you take the whole penis into your mouth rather than keeping a hand or two on it. This can be very difficult and uncomfortable, resulting in gagging ? in general, only the very experienced can do this and the head of the penis is the most sensitive part anyway so that's the most important bit.

Tease your partner by changing the speed, get him really aroused by moving faster and sucking harder and then slow down so that he does not reach orgasm. Stop altogether and concentrate all of your attention on one of the areas that you had been arousing with your other hand, then, go back to the penis and tease him some more. Take him to the very brink of orgasm (not easy) and then slow him down. Enjoy it (he will), you are in complete control.